I think Kevin at BMR understands it better than I do, but in any event, if you head over to his site, you'll see in the upper left his
Bottom line: I've added the widget to the sidebar at the bottom. Sleek, Plank and Stevens8204 are already on board, and my respect for them has, like, quadrupled since they did so. Now it's your turn, and not just if you have a blog of your own, either. Literally, it's just about the least you could do for me... ingrates.